Many men think that the art of attraction is about how you approach women face to face, which is actually true.

However, that is a bit like writing up an assay and completing it without doing any research… you are jumping into it too quickly and missing out the first but vital step.

Approaching a girl out of nowhere and trying to get her attention through the art of chat is a step that you will eventually have to take, however getting her attention from afar is 50% of the battle which you can achieve by simply dressing up nicely. The art of dressing is simply a means of portraying who or what you are and the type of clothes you wear will portray a different story.

To get girls to like you, give them a reason to notice you, be sure you wear eye catching clothing that paints a picture about you. For example, if you want to come across as sophisticated, cultured and well travelled, but not pompous and posh, then a wooly jumper will do the trick.

Make sure she notices you, be sure to stand in her line of sight, but do not make it too obvious that you are doing it. You want her to notice you in a natural manner only to then move out of sight, before popping up again.

Remember, you want her to notice you and make her think that she remembers seeing you only 5 minutes before.  It is only then should you give her a quick glance and a cheeky smile to start getting her thought process going, wondering who this mysterious man truly is?

You will at this point know if she noticed you based on her reaction after smiling at her. Do not be surprised if you find that she suddenly is sitting alone at the bar or table… she may just want you to approach her.

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